Quote from Kelci

A good friend of mine posted a wonderful quote on her facebook and I thought I should share it. "If you don't nurture my soul, then you are not allowed to touch my flesh. Point. Blank. Period." I thought this was extremely insightful. This is exactly how I felt after I broke up with my boyfriend almost a year ago. We were advancing physically in our relationship and not spiritually. I took a good look in the mirror and asked myself how did I get here? I am a God loving girl, how can I date someone who doesn't love God just as much as I do or more. It was just counter intuitive. Not that I don't have non-Christian friends, but if I'm going to share my life and body with someone they will need to know Jesus as their Lord and savior. And the same goes for any woman I know. Don't change yourself completely because of a man/boy. If after dating for a couple of months and you look in the mirror and don't recognize or like the person you see in the mirror, get out of that relationship. Run and don't look back. You are too awesome and too valuable to be wasting your time trying to change someone. If they don't see or recognize it then you can't help them and it's a hopeless case. So stand firm in your beliefs and know what you want or even a small idea of what you want in a partner and future. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Don't forget that.